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Black Marriage Day--Satuday, March 22, 2008


Great Book for Busy Moms!
by Anita S. Lane

. Lessons My Toddler Taught Me: A Devotional for Mothers of Young Children

by Anita S. Lane

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Bookviews
The Bond Book of the Month


The Bond
by Drs. Sampson Davis, Rameck Hunt and George Jenkins

Listen to the Interview!
Sex Wars

Chocolate Pages
Book Review

Sex Wars: A Battle Cry of Purity
Edited by Robert S. Scott

 
 

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Spring 2008 Issue
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BLACK HISTORY

*World Premiere*
"A Raisin in the Sun" airs February 25th on ABC, starring Sean Combs, Phylicia Rashad, Sanaa Lathan and Audra McDonald. Learn More...

Black History Links


Slavery and the Making of America 

Slavery and the Making of America is the groundbreaking four-part series SLAVERY AND THE MAKING OF AMERICA chronicles the institution of American slavery from its origins in 1619 - when English settlers in Virginia purchased 20 Africans from Dutch traders - through the arrival of the first 11 slaves in New Amsterdam, the American Revolution, the Civil War, the adoption of the 13th Amendment and Reconstruction.

Check your local PBS listing for the channel and times

Black Facts Online
http://www.blackfacts.com

Learn About Black History with Kulture Kidz--An interactive site for kids
http://www.aakulturezone.com/kidz/index.html

Black History Calendar
http://www.theblackmarket.com/dates.htm

Bios of Notable African Americans
http://www.lkwdpl.org/schools/blhist/

BLACK HISTORY REVIEW--Honoring African-American Achievement
http://www.blackhistoryreview.com

African Americans--Culture, History, Legacy and a Heritage of Proud People
http://www.africanamericans.com/--Lot's of interesting information on this site

Black History Quiz
http://www.kn.pacbell.com/wired/BHM/bh_hunt_quiz.html

Blacks in Technology
http://www.users.fast.net/~blc/xlhome2.htm

National Civil Rights Museum in Memphis, TN
http://www.civilrightsmuseum.org/gallery/movement.asp

Black Inventors (and black history-related board games are on this site!)
http://www.littleafrica.com/resources/inventors.htm

 

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MLK Related Links

KFF's Martin Luther King, Jr. Page

The King Center in Atlanta

MLK Jr. National Memorial in Washington D.C.

Sermons, readings, thoughts and reflections on the life of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. at Faithandvalues.com

Information on Dr. King's Nobel Peace Prize at Nobelprize.org

Virtual Tour of Dr. King's Birth Home

Martin Luther King Jr. Papers Project: Stanford University

"I Have A Dream Speech"  Listen to the Entire Audio (MP3) and view the written script 
http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/Ihaveadream.htm

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List of Books Authored by Dr. King

  • Stride Toward Freedom, (New York: Harper & Row, 1958). The story of the Montgomery Bus Boycott.
  • The Measure of a Man, (Philadelphia: Pilgrim Press, 1959). A selection of sermons.
  • Why We Can’t Wait, (New York: Harper & Row, 1963). The story of the Birmingham Campaign.
  • Strength to Love, (New York: Harper & Row, 1963). A selection of sermons.
  • Where Do We Go From Here: Chaos or Community? (New York: Harper & Row, 1967). Reflections on the problems of today’s world, the nuclear arms race, etc.
  • The Trumpet of Conscience, (New York: Harper & Row, 1968). The Massey Lectures. Sponsored by the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation. (Posthumously).

Recommended Reading
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We Must Love Ourselves—The Solution for a Post-Modern Civil Rights Era

by Anita S. Lane

Prior to the advancements made by the civil rights movement of the 1950s and 60s, the black community suffered under severe and oppressive racism that made it very difficult to fully express one’s self and function freely in American society.   Some of the external forces that permitted such oppression still exist in the hearts of men today, yet I believe that we in the black community must come to terms with the fact that the most oppressive inhibitor now exists within. 

The modern civil rights movement brought the segregation walls down. This was a very necessary action to ensure all Americans the right to vote and access to houses, jobs and universities.  Yet when the walls came down our focus as a community should have shifted inward.  What do we need to do now to ensure that we are able to take full advantage of the opportunities before us?  How do we deal with the lingering inner oppressive forces that are the result of centuries of external oppression that now work against us to keep us from excelling even after the segregation walls have been brought down?

Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., following the example of the nonviolent model of Jesus Christ, taught us to love our enemies.  Today, our most powerful enemy is the enemy within, and the only conqueror to this enemy is love.

I believe Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. would pain inside to see that after the incredible amount sacrifice the black community endured to persist in the nonviolent movement, today we are the largest perpetrators of violence and the majority of that violence we inflict on one another.

Can we take the words of the nonviolent leaders and use the example of the nonviolent movement and lift the oppression that exists within the black community today?  It’s been said that change occurs only when an oppressed people “find their voice.”  Can we find our voice within in the words, “we must love ourselves?”  As rudimentary as this may sound, until we truly love ourselves, we will not cease to destroy ourselves, and we will keep ourselves from living the glorious lives that God has intended for each of us. 

Can we in the black community boycott the hate, march against the blame game and hold a sit-in at the local churches to hear our preachers pour the message of love into our hearts?

God’s word tells us that love will cover the multitude of sins (I Peter 4:8).  It is this kind of unconditional, enduring love that will enable us to embrace our strengths, rise above external opposing forces, conquer our fears, overcome our failures, grow beyond our limitations and lead the lives purposed for us.  No one and nothing else can do this for us.  It must begin from within.  We must find our voice and change our destiny.  We must truly love ourselves.

copyright 2005 Anita S. Lane

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And now, for a little bit of Black history in the making...

Here is an audio clip of Barack Obama's "Yes We Can" speech given after his victory in South Carolina, January 26, 2008.



Watch the supporter created "Yes We Can" Video.


 

 


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